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It's a fact: 1 in 8 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in their lifetime. However, we know that early detection and treatment increases your chance of survival.

My diagnosis:


I'm often asked how I found out or how I knew.... Did I feel a lump?


My diagnosis: In 2012, I did not ‘feel’ like myself. I didn’t have my normal spunk nor was my energy level what it used to be. When I visited my primary care doctor in March, I let her know about heaviness in my chest, decreased energy levels and just a feeling of ‘blah. She ordered chest MRI and xrays. The chest MRI showed swollen axillary lymph nodes in my chest but results showed no pathology found. As the year progressed, I complained of heaviness in my chest and decreased energy levels.   In October, I had my annual mammogram. Results came back normal.


Flip to 2013:  During my annual physical with my primary care doctor, she performed my breast exam.  When she pressed underneath my left arm, it was VERY tender.  I NEVER felt a lump. It wasn’t a lump that alarmed either of us. It was tenderness along with the swollen axillary lymph nodes.   She ordered another mammogram (despite normal reading in Oct ’12) and an ultrasound. The 2nd mammogram also showed nothing. When I went for the ultrasound, the radiologist was called into the room and initially felt what he was seeing was a cyst.  He told me to come back in six months. The next day he called and said I should come in for a biopsy because of my age. I went for a core biopsy that eventually led to my breast cancer diagnosis.  Breast Cancer – Stage IIa – Triple Negative.


This is what I want you to take away from my diagnosis:

  1. Only you know your body. Don’t let anyone convince you that you’re ‘ok’ when you don’t feel ‘ok’.  Trust your God given senses and abilities.

  2. Stay adamant with your primary care doctor if you want more tests done. If they don’t listen, get a new doctor

  3. Be aware that not all breast cancers are LUMPs that you’re able to ‘feel’ and ‘detect’ on your own.

  4. If you get results in the mail that imply ‘normal’ results but seem to be ‘abnormal’ based on the information in the letter – call your doctor right away for clarification

  5. Save the TaTas .. Schedule your mammogram & inquire why an ultrasound isn’t given. I had two normal mammograms. Thank goodness my doc ordered the ultrasound.


Sometimes, it's not a lump but other warning signs, such as:

  • *Tenderness under your arm that feels differently than you've ever experienced

  • *Swelling, warmth, redness of the breast

  • *Change in size or shape of the breast

  • *Dimpling or puckering of the skin around nipple

  • *Nipple discharge

  • *Itchy, Scaly, sore, or rash on nipple

  • *New Pain in one area that doesn't go away


Breast self-awareness

1. Know your risk
2. Get screened
3. Know what is normal for you
4. Make healthy lifestyle choices



Healthy Lifestyles

Physical activity

The first part of healthy living involves the energy that you release from your body. Physical activity not only burns energy (calories), but can also help lower the risk of some types of cancer and other diseases. Here is all it takes to get started:

  • If you have been inactive for a long time, are overweight, have a high risk of heart disease or some other chronic health problem, see your doctor before starting an exercise program.

  • Build physical activity into your daily routine. All you need is moderate (where you break a sweat) activity — like brisk walking for 30 minutes a day.

  • Do whatever physical activity you enjoy most and gets you moving.

  • After exercising, think about how good you feel about yourself and your body. Use that feeling to motivate you the next time.

If you are already physically active, keep up the good work. Physical activity may help lower your risk of breast cancer. This is because exercise lowers estrogen levels, fights obesity, lowers insulin levels and boosts the function of immune system cells that attack tumors.

Weight control

  • Gaining weight after menopause increases a woman’s risk for breast cancer.

  • Weight gain of 20 pounds or more after the age of 18 may increase your risk of breast cancer.

  • If you have gained weight, losing weight may lower your risk of breast cancer.


The second part of healthy living involves what you put into your body.

  • Eat fruits and vegetables. Strive to eat at least five servings per day.

  • Eat whole-grains and cereals. Whenever possible, choose whole-grain breads and cereals.

  • Eat fewer high fat foods and sweets.

  • Take a daily multivitamin with folate.

  • Get plenty of calcium. Your body needs at least 1000 mg each day. You can get it from low-fat milk or yogurt, fortified fruit juices, spinach, kale or calcium tablets. Leading a healthy lifestyle will not eliminate your risk of serious health problems like cancer, but it may lower your risk.


Alcohol — or the lack of it

The third part of healthy living is limiting alcohol intake. You may have heard about research that showed having one serving of alcohol (for example, a glass of wine) each day improves your health by reducing your risk of heart attack. That is true, but many studies have also shown that alcohol intake can increase the risk of breast cancer. The key is moderation — less than one drink a day. In general, the more alcohol you drink, the higher your risk of developing breast cancer.

Emotional health

Keeping your body free from disease is a big part of healthy living, but it is also important to keep a healthy attitude. Here are some ways to help maintain your emotional health:

  • Do things that make you happy and that bring balance to your life. Pay attention to yourself and your needs. Go to the library and pick out a book. Take a walk in the park. Have coffee with a friend.

  • Have faith in yourself. Many things can help you be healthier and feel better about yourself. Being in touch with the spiritual part of you through meditation or prayer can help you gain inner peace — in spite of what is going on in your life.

Let there be no smoke

If you don't smoke, don't start. You have done your body a world of good by avoiding tobacco. If you do smoke, please ask your doctor for help in quitting. Smoking has been linked to higher risks of many types of cancer. There are health benefits from quitting at any age. And after five years of being smoke-free, the risk of developing diseases as a result of having smoked goes down. 

Susan G. Komen for the Cure is not a health care provider and does not give medical advice. The information provided is not meant to be used for elf-diagnosis or to replace the services of a medical professional.Developed in collaboration with the Health Communication Research Laboratory at Saint Louis University. ©2009 Susan G. Komen for the Cure.




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